How To Say No
If you really want to succeed in today’s time and Age (Read: New Age), you have to make sure you know how to say no.
Moreover, in retrospection, no one wants to hear a No.
Everybody is out there to get to their True Purpose in life. However, how many are they hurting along the way and who is out to really get it is something that can help only a Few.
The Truth Is:
If you find out; the truth is:
Everyone Works for their own ‘selves’ and when they don’t stop, why do you.
The Belief should be: Balance. The Idea should be to achieve it by Day end at the least. The Solution is to keep One Day as your target, not your doings, or done.
Once you realize THIS, your believes will get strong and you will get some affirmation on The True Purpose Of Your Life.
Fighting with yourself; internally or externally or holding a GRUDGE is the End of a soul. There is no end to anger. Nor is there any end to crying, realization, dreams, goals and serenity. The idea is to Keep things to yourself and don’t let ANYONE bring you down.
How To Set Yourself Apart
Everybody has goals. Everybody has aspirations. However, no one wants to get ”disturbed” while they are trying to ”’ Attain”’ what is Written for them.
Some people try to start their life or perhaps their day with the belief of their end. They don’t mind screwing 4-5 people a day for their own motives. Especially the people in HR.
Nonetheless, the NEED to TALK or start talking can literally help you get away with a lot, stay with your self and help you attain Mind, Body, Soul balance.
Remember, we are already US. And there is no definition of a man or woman per se.
History Speaks For Itself
If you look at history, every artist, book writer, singer-songwriter or anyone else for that purpose, talks about ‘light’ or positivity or motivation perhaps. However, if we categorize it down; Everyone talks the same.
Sometimes we are restricted by ourselves, other times we are restricted by our families and third of the times, we are quite difficult to ‘bear’ or ‘bare’ by other people.
Most people in this New Age are following a code of destruction perhaps with their ways of talking or dealing with people. It mostly starts at work. Your HOME is your place of retribution. For self belief, the first notion holds True. Never let anyone come in your way with their blind talks and irresponsible ways. YOU will stay till the end and EVERYTHING is INTERNAL.
The Biggest We Face Today
“Until you learn how to confidently say NO to so many things, you shall always say YES to so many things. The real summary of a regretful life is a life that failed to balance YES and NO. Yes! A life that failed to recognize when to courageously say NO and when to confidently say YES!”
― Ernest Agyemang Yeboah
There have been so many books on how to say no but does it really work?
It will once you start afresh by saying Amen and then not to take out your anger, ESPECIALLY not in the Hidden. (Which means you being alone and getting it out of your system; on the other person or on yourself. There is no end to The Hidden War; one which is non-existent. The rest is doubt).
A wise man will never let you cross you and a disrespectful man will never react on his disrespect. The peacemakers will always be patient and the fighters will always make you regret.
Staying to yourself is the idea of a successful life.
Saying No: Quotes To Make You Smile
“Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.”
― Anna Taylor
“Sometimes “No” is the kindest word.” – (for the ones who understand)
― Vironika Tugaleva
“Tone is the hardest part of saying no.” – Tone matters!
― Jonathan Price, Put That in Writing
“When you say no to the wrong people, it opens up the space for the right people to come in.”
― Joe Calloway, Magnetic: The Art of Attracting Business
Looking For A Simple Formula? There’s None!
If you think about it;
The Human Nature is such that when told by someone or anyone, it stops, realizing, processes and notes it down.
The problem is; No one in this Entire World is here to save you OR help you EXCEPT your blood (your family- immediate).
Rest of the idea is simple.
Saying no is about confidence and confidence is all about your internal process and that is Health. The help is Water. (Literally). It helps with the tears, gut, reflexes and helps you stay ground till the End.
Certain Books On How To Say No
The art of saying no: Damon Zahariades
How To Say No: Without Feeling Guilty: Patti Breitman
The Power Of A Positive No: William Ury