The past is the past. Something that has already happened. Truth be told, a lot of people cannot step out of their past because of undeniable moments. However, such people need to realize that the past happened but with you, time passed with you as constant and all of it is a new start. Where you are standing is 10 inches away from where you started.
Lest be told, the past is not a better future. It is stated in the Holy Quran that Allah *Subhana’Ta’Allah* (May the beautiful God be with you) people were removed from your life because of a reason. It is also stated in the Book that the past holds no future or responsibility. In fact, it has become the ‘past’ for more than one reason and that; reason is the past itself. Something might not have been right, something might have been dysfunctional or He might have seen it and then the path chosen for you and by you is the one heading towards the better future. Ideally, this concept of the past and moving on is a huge struggle and easier said than done. However, it is the best way forward.
All you need to achieve this is motivation and a spiritual healer who can guide you through that transition. Additionally, and ideally, between this is your Faith.
Not only does your faith has to be redeemed it also has to stay put and it will, only if you are stronger and smarter and understand Allah’s work.
Islam or not Islam, the principle of faith are the 5 pillars of Islam. Islam is the finality of the religion and the last bit left for the Muslims is the Day of Judgement. In fact, they are striving for the day of judgement and hence forth, they should ideally keep everything within.
Within births forth many notions and hence forth, the best way forward is to read religion, accept birth, adopt childhood, live aggressively but be passive about your emotions. The ideal pace to let go of your emotions will be to leave it on Allah. Rest, don’t even spend an inch lower on people not an inch higher.
Staying in the past is staying stuck on something. Whether it is emotions or whether it is love, the truth is that in between that phase, call it a spiritual phase or a transition, the period itself might not have been smooth. Therefore, don’t delude yourself and think positively about the future as it will birth you good deeds and good notions.
Further, spark that emotion with you and it won’t be more time till you come out of that loophole and start experiencing life- enjoying growth and momentum both.